It says in 1 Corinthians in chapter 12,
you could never find anything like this in
the Old Covenant, of
recognizing the part that another member of the
body has to play in the body, and
no one can say, see it says in
1 Corinthians 12, 21, the eye cannot say
to the hand, I have no need of
you, nor can the head say to the
feet, I have no need of you.
It's good for all of us to ask
ourselves, in whichever church you are, do you
feel that your ministry is so gifted and
so important, that some of those other people,
you can do without them.
That is one of the clearest proofs, that
you have not seen the body of Christ.
It's something you have to see, you know,
there are people who, we see a lot
of non-Christians, have not seen the way
of salvation.
They think they have to work and work
and work and get forgiveness of sins, but
God has opened our eyes to see the
way of salvation, how free it is.
It's something you see, God opens our eyes.
And I believe that God has to open
our eyes, and He'll open your eyes if
you are humble, to show you that you
need that person.
And especially those who are very gifted, and
who have a sense of self-importance, and
feel that they are very important to the
body of Christ.
It's very easy to feel, I don't need
that person.
And it says here, on the contrary, verse
22, do you understand this?
Ask yourself, the members of the body, which
you think are weaker, are necessary.
You look around at Christendom, nobody feels that
way.
The only one, the great preachers, the great
healer, he's necessary.
What about the weaker members?
They are there or not there, it doesn't
make a difference.
Who has understood the body of Christ?
Who has seen the body of Christ, that
the weaker members are necessary, which seem to
be weaker.
There's a ministry that some brothers can do,
that even the most gifted brother in the
body of Christ cannot do.
You need to understand that, especially those who
are gifted.
However gifted you may be in one area,
there are many things you cannot do, which
some other brother has to do to complete
that ministry of the body.
And if you have a church where every
person recognizes that, you build the body of
Christ.
And that's the purpose of teaching, is to
enable everyone to recognize, I need my brother
and he needs me.
And where we value one another and don't
think, you know the Bible says, everyone seeks
their own.
Love does not seek its own.
When we think of enduring in love until
the end, in the next chapter it says,
one of the characteristics of love in 1
Corinthians 13, 5, it does not seek its
own.
I remember preaching this in one church and
somebody came to me and said, you think
there's anybody who doesn't seek their own?
Everybody seeks their own.
I said, yeah, that is true in Paul's
time also.
All sought their own, but there was a
Timothy who did not seek his own.
There are not many.
Generally speaking, even in the church, all seek
their own.
How will this benefit me?
You know, you can join a church because
you say, yeah, this is a good place
for my children to grow up.
Nice place.
The children are well behaved and it's good
for my children to be in this influence.
You're an utterly selfish person who has not
understood ABC of the body of Christ.
You're seeking your own.
How will this benefit my children?
My children can play in the music and
they can develop.
Whatever you see in the body of Christ,
do you feel that other person is necessary?
Thinking of promoting ourselves, what will benefit me?
The people are nice.
They'll help you when you're in trouble.
If you have joined a church like that,
I want to say to you in Jesus'
name, you have not seen ABC of the
body of Christ.
And not only that, I want to say
to you in Jesus' name, you're a hindrance
to your local church.
Because one fundamental truth of this body is,
there's no part of this body that seeks
its own.
The hand does not seek its own.
The eyes, ears, they do not seek their
own.
Any part of this body that seeks its
own is what the doctors call a cancer.
My layman's understanding of a cancer is a
group of cells that will take all the
nourishment to itself and it will grow and
grow and grow and grow.
That's a cancer.
What can I get out of this?
And you may not realize that the cancer
is in the body of Christ.
We have that spirit.
They do not realize that everyone is necessary.
And as I said here, one characteristic of
love is, love does not seek its own.
1 Corinthians 13 verse 5.
I told you it's not surprising that in
the Christian church most people seek their own.
It was true in Paul's day.
Please turn to Philippians chapter 2 in verse
19 to 21.
If you want to find an outstanding example
of a godly young man, it's Timothy.
Philippians 2.19 I hope in the Lord
Jesus to send Timothy to you shortly because,
listen to this, Paul had so many co
-workers.
He's not talking about unbelievers.
If you say unbelievers are seeking their own,
that's understood.
All unbelievers seek their own.
Or you say these carnal believers, they seek
their own.
But when Paul's co-workers, they are seeking
their own.
Somebody wants to be known as, earlier on
in Philippians he says, because I'm in prison,
some people are getting a chance to preach
because Paul is in prison and say, great,
now we can prove what great preachers we
are because Paul is out of the way.
They're seeking their own.
And here he says, I don't have anybody
else other than Timothy.
Paul, you've got so many co-workers here
with you, none of them?
No.
He's not talking about his entire team of
co-workers like Titus and all the wonderful
people.
They were somewhere else.
Or Luke and all that.
But the ones who were with him there,
among them, he says, Timothy is the only
one I can say.
I don't have anybody like that who is
genuinely concerned for your welfare.
When you look around at Christendom today, you
have preachers who are concerned for their own
welfare.
How will this benefit me?
If I become a pastor of this church,
how will it benefit me?
If I go here, how will it benefit
me?
How will it benefit my children?
But to be concerned for the welfare of
others, and then it says, everybody seeks after
their own interests.
Not those of Christ Jesus.
And if we belong in that category, that
I'm seeking my own interest, not the interest
of Christ Jesus, I'm a hindrance to the
body of Christ.
And that's why we don't see the body
of Christ being built in many places.
Because it's very difficult to find people like
Timothy.
It's very rare.
Like I said, every part of the body
seeks the good of the other.
And I want to say, brothers and sisters,
it's an amazing thing that Jesus came to
build the body.
And when we love the church, we will
do what Jesus did, as we read in
Ephesians 5.
Christ loved the church and gave himself for
it.
Ephesians 5, 25.
Many of you belong to local churches.
Can that word be written about you that
you love your church, your local church so
much that you give yourself for it?
You don't want any honor, you don't want
any gain.
Of course, we always teach that we don't
want any money.
But I fear that many people who do
not want money do want honor.
And that is as bad as wanting money.
Many, many people, even in our churches and
similar churches, say, oh, I don't preach for
money.
But you want honor, brother.
There's zero difference between seeking for honor and
seeking for money.
Absolutely not.
You can find fault with that other preacher
who goes on television seeking for money.
If you're seeking for honor, you're just in
absolutely the same category.
Your money is honor, that's all.
His money is rupees.
Your money is honor.
But true disciple of Jesus Christ would love
the church and give himself up for it.
And if God can find two or three
people like that, He can begin a church
anywhere.
And the devil will always seek to corrupt
such a church by introducing people in there
who seek their own.
And so if this is the case, we
all need to recognize what we've emphasized in
the church about boundaries.
A humble person is one who recognizes that
I have a boundary.
Every part of this body has got a
boundary.
It can only operate in that area.
And the New Testament speaks a lot about
that.
I must recognize my boundary in my relationship
with my wife.
And a lot in Indian culture, you know
how the husband is like a king.
His wife has got no boundary.
Boss over the wife.
A true child of God will recognize that
my wife has got a boundary.
I cannot go inside that boundary.
It's like going into somebody else's territory.
There's a verse in Proverbs that says don't
remove the ancient boundary marks.
You know, the way they marked property was
by putting a stone there and a stone
here and a stone here.
That's the boundary.
Don't move it.
That means don't go into that person's boundary.
And I don't think any of you would
do it in terms of property.
You will not move a property marker to
take your neighbor's property.
You will never do it.
But you can go into the boundary of
your wife or go into the boundary of
a brother.
I'm not supposed to.
I must respect it.
Even children have boundaries.
I must respect that.
I must never humiliate a child publicly.
I was very careful about that in disciplining
my children when there were visitors around and
if one of them misbehaved.
I would never punish him then and say,
okay, we'll deal with that later.
Because if I punish him then, it's a
double punishment.
I'm humiliating him before those visitors.
He's got a dignity as a little child.
It's a boundary I must not go into.
I must not humiliate him.
I have to punish him as a father
but not humiliate him.
Like I said about my wife.
Maybe there's an area that God has given
to her in the kitchen perhaps or other
areas of the house.
I must not go in there.
I must respect her just like she respects
me.
And even in the church.
We must recognize people's boundary.
And that's why every person has a certain
dignity about him that God has given.
I must recognize that.
I must never humiliate a person by making
him feel small in the eyes of others.
That is recognizing my boundary.
That is being concerned, not seeking my own
but seeking the good of the other.
I've often thought of this verse in Ecclesiastes
where it says in Ecclesiastes in chapter 10
that when God has put a boundary wall
around you and you break through
that wall it says in Ecclesiastes 10 and
verse 8 the last part, a serpent can
bite you.
God has drawn a boundary wall around you
beyond that is the boundary of your wife
or the boundary of a brother or someone
else.
And I say, well, I don't care.
I want to assert myself.
A serpent will bite you.
And that's how many people have lost the
grace of God.
A serpent has bitten them.
Because they have not recognized the grace God
has given to somebody else.
I want to encourage all of you brothers
in your local churches please recognize the grace
God has given to that weak brother to
the one who cannot speak as well as
you can.
God gives honor to that weaker person.
And if you are like God you will
give honor to that weaker person.
If you ignore that and break the boundary
wall and go it says you're a serpent
will bite you.
And that's the reason some people suffer sometimes
from even sicknesses because they've gone outside their
boundary.
Let me repeat that verse in 1 Corinthians
12 where it says, you know you want
to be like God we all want to
be like God and it says one characteristic
of God is in the body 1 Corinthians
12.24 1 Corinthians 12.24 God gives
more abundant honor to the member which lacks
gift.
This is very different from Christendom.
In Christendom most honor is given to the
one who's got a gift.
He's got a gift of preaching.
He's got a gift of healing.
Oh, great honor to him.
Anybody can do that.
In the world they do that.
In the world they give honor to the
one who's got gift.
But God is different.
He gives honor to the member which lacks
gift.
That's why Jesus would pick up little children.
They had no gift.
Little children, what could they do?
They can't sing, they can't talk, they can't
give any money.
He picked them up and said, the kingdom
of God is like this.
If you can be like a little child
you can enter God's kingdom.
And if you want your church to be
like the kingdom of God it'll be like
the kingdom of God if everyone in there
is in his heart attitude like a little
child.
Not in understanding.
The Bible says in understanding be mature.
But in your attitude of spitefulness or revenge
or backbiting you should backbite.
Small two-year-olds can't backbite.
Be like little children.
Recognize your boundary.
Recognize and recognize the grace God has given
to another person.
Sometimes it can be jealousy.
I've seen people who want to promote their
own children in the church.
Somehow give them some prominence.
They'll never do that to another brother who
may be more gifted.
They want to promote their own children.
It happens all over.
All over Christendom.
Such people do not know the Lord.
I don't believe they know the Lord at
all because with God there is no partiality.
I want to say to you elders of
CFC, you try to promote your children.
You're not like God.
I'll tell you in Jesus' name you're not
like God.
You're a partial person who is seeking your
own.
And you will destroy the body of Christ
in your locality.
Get rid of that attitude.
Love Jesus more than you love your son
and daughter.
I'm telling you what I've seen.
Very, very important.
I saw this We wanted to get a
list of potential leaders in our church and
some people sent the names of their own
children.
Little kids.
Potential leaders.
Can you believe it?
And ignore all the others?
These people have been in CFC so many
years.
What have they learned?
God, with God there is no partiality.
You can be many years in CFC and
seek your own, seek your own, seek your
own and get no light on it.
It'll be a great day when God gives
us light on areas of our life where
I'm seeking my own and not recognizing the
grace given to somebody else who is not
my relative, who is not my son who
is not connected to me who may be
different from me in so many ways but
I recognize God has given that person a
grace.
Maybe he's not educated like I am.
God has given him a grace.
If we recognize that, we can build the
body of Christ in our locality.
Maybe your wife is not so smart as
you are.
Recognize the grace given to her to be
your helper.
God saw that you needed that type of
wife to be your helper.
Value.
I believe that if we recognize the grace
God has given to other people, we'll value
them.
I want to value every brother and sister
that God has given me in the church.
I want to value my wife, I want
to value the children God's given me.
Even if God's given you or you have
a child who is retarded in some way,
value that child.
In God's great wisdom, he gave you something.
God never makes a mistake.
Recognize your boundary that's limited perhaps now because
of that child in your home.
Good.
God has limited your boundary.
Praise the Lord.
Lord, I accept it.
Of course, do your best to get whatever
treatment you can for that child.
That's fine.
But recognize God's hand in all these things
trying to limit you and humble you so
that he can give you grace.
Let's pray.
Our Father, there is so much we have
to learn.
After so many years, we have accumulated knowledge
like anything.
We can teach and teach and teach and
teach and yet in the ordinary relationships of
life, very often we cannot recognize the grace
given to someone who we feel is inferior
to us or doesn't know as much as
us.
Please have mercy on us, Lord, in all
of our churches.
Help us to be free from partiality.
Help us to humble ourselves.
Give us grace, we pray.
In Jesus' name, amen.