Let's go to the Word.
My message tonight, your friends matter to God.
Your friends.
It's an unusual message for me.
I have no idea why God had me
preach it tonight.
But I don't question him.
My job is to do what he tells
me to do.
Your friends matter to God.
We're going to talk about your best friends.
We're going to talk about your bosom pals.
I heard somebody say, I wish I had
one.
Father, you are interested in every area of
our life.
There's absolutely nothing in our life that you
are not vitally concerned about.
And Lord, this message tonight is so very
close to your heart.
But I know this because I've seen people's
lives so destroyed by their friends.
Oh God, I ask you to send Holy
Ghost conviction tonight upon everyone in this house.
Lord, we're to examine ourselves by the standard
of the Word.
And I humble myself before you and I
ask you to use me as an oracle.
Holy Spirit, you speak through my mouth.
You speak tonight to everyone in this house.
I humble myself before you.
Lord, this is the message you put on
my heart for this night.
Why, I don't know.
But Lord, you do.
And I pray, Father, that a miracle will
happen tonight.
That we will be transformed by the living
Word.
Lord, I take this message to my own
heart.
Now, Lord, help me to deliver it with
grace and mercy.
In the power of the Holy Spirit, in
Jesus' name, amen.
Your closest friends are of great concern to
the Lord.
Your closest friends tell God and others what
you really are inside.
Because your friends reflect what is in your
own heart.
If you have Godly friends, it's a link
to the favor and blessing of God.
If you are in close contact or your
best friend is evil or there's unrighteousness, it
is a bondage, it's a bind.
There are chains that can chain you to
the very powers of darkness.
That's how vital this message is.
Have you ever taken time in your lifetime
or your walk with Jesus, have you ever
taken time off and said, Lord, what do
you think of my friends?
Are they your friends or are they your
enemies?
They can be my friends, but are they
your enemies?
This is an important question tonight.
Now, when I speak of a friend, I'm
excluding your wife, your husband, relatives, children.
I'm excluding all of that.
I don't want to talk about that.
My definition of a friend is as follows.
One that you are closely associated with, whom
you continually confide.
It's the one that you walk and talk
with.
It's the one that you bear your soul
to.
That's the friend that I want to talk
about.
Now, there are various circles of friends in
our lives.
There's the business circle that many of us
have.
These are business associates and you have to
do business.
You have that circle of business friends, career
people, those that are on your job.
You have another circle where there's just a
surface relationship.
These can be relatives near or distant and
people you work with.
There's a circle there.
You have to do business.
Paul said you'd have to go out of
the world if you didn't associate and mingle
with these.
That has to do with business, and if
you do charity work, you're sometimes involved with
people that are not very charitable as far
as walking with Jesus.
But I want to talk about that, and
I want to talk about your best friends,
those that most influence your life, those that
are closest to you.
It's probably the one whose phone bill appears
most on your phone bill, their number.
I'm speaking about the one with whom you
have affinity.
The word I want to use is affinity.
It's a Bible word.
It's a natural liking or attraction to.
It's one that you agree with and who
agrees with you.
You're in agreement.
In other words, when you're in a crisis,
you call this person or you unbosom your
soul to them.
You have developed this relationship with this friend
you call the best friend.
It could be more than one, but I
want to focus in on that very inner
circle.
Now, what is in our hearts is honestly
always sending out signals.
Whatever is in you is sending out signals.
There's a message that goes out from our
very character.
For example, I watch it.
I see it in this church, and I
see it in every church that I've been
to preach.
You see it.
It's very, very obvious that there are signals
that are sent out by what is inside
our hearts.
A very loose, lustful, sensuous woman can walk
into this church and just prance down the
aisle and sit, and she'll look around, and
you go out in the lobby, and you'll
find that she's made contact somehow, supernaturally, with
every roving eye in the house.
There'll be two or three guys around her.
She's walked in, and she's attracted to them.
There's a signal that's sent out by her
very character.
I was amazed watching one drug addict who'd
left our program because he couldn't give up
his cocaine, came and walked and sat way
over here.
There was another same kind of guy, cocaine,
everything, over on this side over here.
And I watched.
I went out after service.
They were walking together down the street.
How they got together, I don't know.
They didn't know each other.
Bang.
Homosexuals walk in here.
They get together.
The message is loud and clear.
Amazing.
I watched.
I've got eagle eyes.
You don't know it.
I may be looking over here, but I'm
seeing over here.
I know in the Spirit almost every woman
in this house has got a lustful spirit
because there's something happening.
When the Holy Ghost moves, you can sense
it because they are looking like this and
looking over here, and they're looking over here.
And the Holy Ghost will say to my
heart, That woman's full of lust, and she's
sending out signals.
And every lustful person, man around her, is
picking up those signals.
Those filled with bitterness and anger and gossip,
a big mouth always finds a big ear.
I believe that with all my heart.
They get together.
How they do it, I don't know.
You go out in the lobby, and you
can find them all together.
There'll be somebody that we've dealt with because
of gossip, and there's three or four more
gossipers there, and they're wagging away right here
in the lobby of the church.
On the other hand, I watched a young,
very godly seminary student come in here.
I met with him one time.
I just watched.
I said, I wonder what kind of friends
will gravitate toward him.
And sure enough, within two services he'd been
here, I saw two of the godliest young
people in this church talking, and they were
together.
There was something in that young man that
attracted those other godly people.
The signal was God.
Now, we know that Satan has many devices
to try to destroy the lives of the
godly, and we're not to be ignorant of
those devices.
One of the most subtle devices of the
devil to destroy godly, tender-hearted Christians is
to send an agent of hell into their
inner circle to become a friend, to destroy.
Now, this is how vital this message is
tonight.
Satan uses this device, especially among the lonely
Christians, but most of all he uses it
among tender Christians, loving Christians, who have a
heart for people, and the devil despises that.
And so often I've seen how the enemy
will plot against those tender, loving people and
will send somebody, an agent of the devil
himself, who appears to be very hurt and
wounded, and will send that hurting, wounded person
there.
This loving person will try to minister to
that person, and if you're not careful, if
you don't have all he goes to discernment,
you can be suddenly in affinity with an
evil spirit, a familiar spirit from hell.
I had a minister friend in the South.
He'd been delivered years and years ago, some
thirty years before, from alcohol.
But the devil, this man had pastored a
great church, and I'd been holding a revival
meeting there when it all came, it was
all exposed.
Somehow he met another minister, miles and miles,
hundreds of miles away.
Somehow the devil sent this other pastor into
his life and became his best friend.
But this best friend, this other preacher, had
been an alcoholic and never delivered and was
still drinking and believed that you could socially
drink.
So when they'd go out together he would
get his buddy to drink with him, this
pastor friend of mine.
And of course he went back to alcoholism.
They both wound up in New Orleans on
the street drinking and led him astray.
Couldn't get him any other way but to
bring this friend into his life, his bosom
pal who led him out.
And I was there holding a crusade when
he was exposed.
Now let me take you to God's Word
and show you what happens when a godly
person joins affinity with someone who is unrighteous.
Our example is going to be King Jehoshaphat.
I want you to turn to 2 Chronicles,
the 17th chapter.
2 Chronicles, the 17th chapter.
Everybody turn there.
I want to hear the rustling of the
leaves.
2 Chronicles, the 17th chapter.
When I was preparing this message I kept
saying, well, who's this for?
The Lord said, for you first, then for
everybody in the congregation and especially for some
that will be there.
Who they are, I don't know.
2 Chronicles, 17th chapter, verse 3, beginning to
read, please.
And the Lord was with Jehoshaphat because he
walked in the ways of his father David,
really his grandfather, and sought not unto Balaam,
but sought to the Lord God of his
father and walked in his commandments and not
after the doings of Israel.
Therefore the Lord established the kingdom in his
hand and all Judah brought in Jehoshaphat to
Jehoshaphat's presence.
He had riches in honor and abundance.
His heart was lifted up in the ways
of the Lord.
Moreover, he took away the high places and
groves out of Judah.
In the third year of his reign he
sent to his princes even...
I'm going to go over those names quickly,
but on down to the ninth verse.
They taught in Judah, had the book of
the law of the Lord with them, and
went about throughout all the cities of Judah
and taught the people.
The fear of the Lord fell upon the
kingdoms of the lands that were round about
Judah so that they made no war against
Jehoshaphat.
Some of the Philistines brought Jehoshaphat's presence, silver.
Rabbis brought him flocks, 7,700 rams, goats.
Verse 12, Jehoshaphat waxed great exceedingly, and he
built in Judah castles and cities of store.
Now look at me if you will, please.
Here's a godly man blessed above every man
of his generation.
He had a heart for God, a loving
man.
He cared for the poor.
He did more for Judah and Jerusalem probably
than any other king up to that time.
And what a wonderful man of God.
And it's mind-boggling to read that this
man, who walked in the ways of his
father David, joined affinity or developed a friendship
with the most wicked king in the history
of Israel.
His name was Ahab.
The Bible says of Ahab, he did more
to provoke the Lord God of Israel to
anger than all the kings of Israel that
were before him.
Now folks, I want you to listen to
me, please.
Here's the heart of my message.
I believe the devil devised a plan to
destroy this man.
The kingdom is at peace.
Nobody can rise up against him.
He's pushed the worship of Baal out.
He's destroyed all the prophets of Baal.
There's a revival in the land, and God
is moving, and this man has a heart
for God.
Nothing can touch him.
He's blessed and honored by the Lord.
In Israel, Ahab is king, and he's married
to the wicked Jezebel.
Now, the Bible says that this man has
riches and honor, and Jezebel's attracted to his
riches and honors.
And she's got a daughter, Hathael, and Hathaliah.
And she's as wicked as her mother.
Now remember, there's some wicked women in the
Bible that did a lot of plotting and
planning to overthrow the kingdom of God.
Do you remember the wife of Philip?
The Herod.
Who was it that John the Baptist rebuked?
Herod.
He married his brother Philip's wife.
She had her daughter Salome dance before the
king, and he offers her half the kingdom,
and she demands John the Baptist's head in
a charger on a plate.
This was the scheming of this wicked woman.
Nobody could scheme like Jezebel.
And her daughter was just like her, and
the whole thing is now, and this is
a plan of the devil to destroy the
righteous royal seed, because Christ was going to
come through this royal seed.
That's very clear in the Scripture, that this
is the line of David, and out of
David would come the Messiah.
And the devil knows that, and he's going
to try to destroy that seed.
And so this wicked Jezebel has her daughter
charm Jehoshaphat's son Jehoram, and charmed him so
much that he wanted to marry the daughter
of Jezebel, Athaliah.
And so they come to Jehoshaphat, and Jehoshaphat
is in favor.
Jehoshaphat knew that all marriages at that time
were arranged.
There could be no marriage without the permission
of both parents, and on both sides.
This was not something that the son coming,
saying, I want her, I'm going to marry
her.
He had to give permission.
Jehoshaphat knew that Ahab was the most wicked
king Israel has ever known.
Now he's reigning in Judah.
This is the king of Israel.
But he gives permission for his son.
Affinity, joining affinity means they joined in marriage.
They joined in marriage.
The devil must have danced in glee and
all of hail at the marriage of righteous
Jehoshaphat's son Jehoram to the wicked Ahab and
Jezebel's daughter Athaliah.
Here they are married.
Suddenly, an idolatrous, devil-possessed young woman is
in Jehoshaphat's home and court.
And the whole plan of the devil is
to bring into this righteous man's life a
friend, out of hell, to destroy the kingdom
of God at Jehoshaphat.
You read this story and it's very intriguing.
It's very, very interesting.
When you follow through, you'll see before my
message is over, the price that this man
paid with his friendship with this wicked man.
This has been a plan of the devil
himself to destroy the seed, the righteous seed
of Christ.
Now, because Jehoshaphat didn't take a stand against
affinity with ungodly companions, he brought on himself,
his family, and his nation the wrath of
God.
Total destruction.
If you follow the story right through to
the 21st chapter and 22nd chapter, 2nd Chronicles,
you will find that Jehoram takes the throne
and Jezebel, the mother-in-law, is calling
the Jots and now enrightens Judah.
They turn the whole nation to idolatry.
Jehoram kills his six brothers.
Now, think about that for just a moment
because of one friend joining one wicked man
in friendship, bringing him into his inner circle.
He had seven sons.
Jehoram is the oldest.
When Jehoram takes the throne, he murders his
six brothers.
Now, the reason for that murder is the
devil is trying to kill the seed of
Christ and leave only wicked Jehoram.
When Jehoram dies, his mother Athaliah takes the
throne and she puts all of Israel, she
goes out and slays, the Bible said, all
the royal seed, except God preserved one young
child.
And, folks, that's why the devil wants to
bring in, he's got a plan to bring
into your life.
And the more righteous you are, the more
you walk with Jesus and the more you
love him, the more you and I have
to be on guard that the devil is
not allowed to plant in our inner circle
somebody who has the devil in them.
Now, it's not explicitly said in the Scripture,
but the more I study this event, the
more I'm convinced that the devil himself brings
this whole plan together.
If you'll look now at chapter 18, verse
1.
Now, Jehoshaphat had riches and honor abundance and
a joint affinity with Ahab.
And after certain years, he went down to
Ahab to Samaria.
Now, nine years go by from the time
that Jehoram, his son, marries this wicked Athaliah.
Athaliah, nine years of constant contact with Ahab.
Nine years of this daughter-in-law wearing
him down or charming even Jehoshaphat.
I want you to follow me very closely
now.
King Jehoshaphat had all the writings of David
at his disposal.
David wrote, I'm a companion of all them
that fear thee and of them that keep
thy precepts.
He said, my companions, those that are closest
to me, fear God and obey his commandments.
He said, that's the kind of friends that
I have.
I want no other friend in my circle.
David wrote, blessed is the man that walketh
not in the counsel of the ungodly, standeth
not in the way of sinners, and sitteth
not in the seat of the scornful.
Let me tell you right now how you
can tell whether or not the devil has
planted somebody in your inner circle to destroy
you.
And to destroy the work of God in
your life, the kingdom of God.
And turn you away from the Messiah.
And before you say, well, please Pastor David,
please, I don't want to suspect my friends.
I don't want you to plant something in
my mind tonight that I would be suspicious
of one of my friends.
Well, you had better be suspicious.
You had better examine it by the word
of the living God.
You have to find out.
You've got to know, and I can tell
you whether or not, it's easy to determine
whether or not your closest friends are really
of God, or they've been planted by the
enemy to destroy you.
It's very, very simple.
If you've got a friend who whispers evil
words into your ear against dignitaries, leaders.
If you hear them backbiting, they're debaters, they're
argumentative according to Scripture.
They call godly people phonies.
If there's a sound of disobedience or envy
or suspicion or poisonous words against their own
husbands or wives.
If you have a friend like that, I'm
telling you it's a plant.
If you have somebody that keeps you away
from the heart of Jesus.
If you have somebody filling you with poison,
it's a plant.
Let me tell you something about a godly
friend.
Let me tell you somebody who's really of
the Lord.
If your friend does not provoke you to
righteousness, a godly friend will provoke you to
righteousness.
If your friend does not warn you to
do what is right and avoid evil.
If your friend doesn't speak honestly about your
unchristlikeness to you.
If he or she does not pray with
you when you're down, encourage you to do
what is right.
If your friend does not help you to
be more like Jesus, but instead fills you
with dissension and drags you down into the
mud of gossip.
Your friend has been planted by the devil.
A God sent friend will always take God's
side.
Not your side, but God's side.
He will stand or she will stand on
the word of the Lord and love you
enough to tell you the truth.
If you really love the Lord and you
want to please Him.
Why don't you ask yourself the question tonight.
If you've got one of those kind of
friends in your inner circle that is bitter,
resentful, always speaking against their mate.
Always speaking against leadership, gossiping.
Ask yourself the question, why am I attracted
to this person?
What is there in me that responds to
this?
What kind of Christian am I that I
have a friend like this?
Does this reflect what is in my own
heart?
Now let me show you what inevitably happens
to a child of God who walks with
affinity with bitter, unrighteous people.
I'm going to show you three awful consequences.
And it's very interesting to see how these
consequences unfolded in the life of Jehoshaphat.
First of all, if you have in your
inner circle an Ahab and a Jezebel spirit.
This wicked spirit that will drive you away
from the heart of Jesus.
First is, you're going to be drawn into
somebody else's war.
Somebody else's problems that you have no business
involved in to your own regret.
You're going to get involved in somebody else's
war.
Look at 2 Chronicles 18, verses 2 and
3.
And after certain years he went down to
Ahab to Samaria.
And Ahab killed sheep and oxen for him
in abundance.
And for the people that he had with
him, persuaded him to go up with him
to Ramoth-Gilead.
And Ahab king of Israel said to Jehoshaphat
king of Judah, Will thou go up with
me to Ramoth-Gilead?
And he answered him, I am as thou
art, and my people as thy people.
We will be with thee in the war.
I'm with you.
You can count on me.
Your problem is my problem.
And now he's getting sucked into a war,
into a mess.
It's a war that cannot be won.
It's a hopeless war because God is not
in it.
Any war that God is not in, forget
it, folks.
Up to this time in chapter 17, verse
10, it reads, No kingdom made war against
Jehoshaphat.
Yet a kingdom of peace.
Always will be blessed and prospered.
There's peace everywhere.
Nobody's standing up against him.
And now the devil has succeeded in doing
what he would like to do to every
one of us.
When you walk with the Lord and the
devil can't get to you, he'll try to
get you involved in somebody else's war.
Doesn't mean that you don't pray with people,
you don't counsel.
Yes, you do.
There are people that are called to do
that.
But I'm talking about a war that you
have no business being in.
Someone else's problem.
Ahab persuaded him to go with him to
war.
And in the Hebrew, persuaded is a soothing
seduction.
That's what it means.
He was seduced through his friendship to get
involved in a war that wasn't his.
I want to tell you something.
If you've got a friend, listen to me
now.
If you've got a friend that gossips and
talks about a husband, talks about a wife
in derogatory terms, always complaining, you mark it
down as a war or they're on the
brink of a war.
And you're going to get caught in the
middle of it.
You're going to have to take a stand.
Say you're a sister and you're talking on
the telephone to another sister and she feels
she's been betrayed by her husband and she
can't get along with her husband and my
husband treats me like a fool and all
this.
They'll build their case.
Anyone who wants out of marriage always builds
a case.
And so they're building their case and you
just sympathize.
Yes, yes, yes, I know.
You think you're going to stay out of
it?
No way.
You're going to get called on by this
Ahab spirit.
You're going to get called on to make
a stand.
He commits himself to this war that he
has no business involved in.
All this man does when he says, I'm
with you, and he encourages him in this
war, all he did was send Ahab quicker
to his death because he was going to
be doomed and you're going to see that
the prophesy wasn't coming back.
All he did by siding with this friend
of his now was to hasten his death.
Because let me tell you, hear me good.
Get on the telephone.
You tell your dear friend, this lady who
wants out of her marriage, you said, yes,
I know.
I know what he's like too.
I believe you.
I'm with you.
You encourage her all the way to and
through divorce.
What you're doing is nothing more than speeding
her to her spiritual death.
You're just as guilty.
Like the woman that came to my office,
just left her husband, sits there just as
calm and collected as she can be.
She said, brother, they want to tell you
something.
And she said it just as sincerely as
she could.
I prayed about this, and God told me
to do it.
God told me he had something better for
me.
I want to tell you something.
You can quote scripture.
You can do all you want and not
make a touch on that woman.
And the problem is she had a best
friend that she confided in every day for
hours, and this other woman confided in her.
I get the same word from the Lord.
And they're both going to stand at the
judgment seat of Jesus Christ and answer for
that.
They're going to the Lord.
You're going to get involved in somebody's war,
and it's going to cost you.
Number two, you're going to end up ignoring
all prophetic warnings and all scriptural counsel.
This is what happens.
Verse four, And Jehoshaphat said unto the king
of Israel, Inquire, I pray thee, at the
word of the Lord today.
Therefore the king of Israel gathered together prophets,
four hundred men, and said unto them, Shall
we go to Ramoth Gilead to battle, or
shall I forbear?
And they said, Go up, for God will
deliver it into the king's hand.
Four hundred voices approving this ungodly thing.
Let me tell you something.
If you've got in your inner circle a
friend like this that's unrighteous, and you've lost
your Holy Ghost discernment, I promise you, you're
going to have all these voices appear telling
you it's okay.
You're going to hear voices on tapes from
preachers that are false prophets.
You're going to pick up books.
You're going to hear these voices telling you.
And a lot of times, there are many
books that are written by bitter ministers that
will minister to all kinds of rebellion in
us.
And the devil will see that you get
all the reassurance that you want.
And that's why people can look you right
in the eye.
People say, I love Jesus, I pray, I
heard from God.
And they're telling you that you're about to
take a step that's almost into the pit
of hell itself.
And yet there's, God told me, you'll hear
voices.
Jehoshaphat said, and by the way, all these
false prophets said, Go ahead, everything's fine, everything's
all right.
Jehoshaphat said, Is there not another prophet in
the land beside these that we might inquire
of the Lord?
Ahab sends for another prophet.
He jailed and called him out of jail,
Micaiah.
This fearless prophet stands before these two kings,
and he begins to prophesy.
First, he mocks the whole scene.
He says, Sure, go, go, go.
Ahab gets mad and says, I told you
to tell me the truth.
Don't ever lie to me.
He says, All right, I'll tell you.
I saw Israel scattered like sheep over the
hills.
They had no shepherd.
He's prophesying they have death.
He says, You're going to die.
And all the people are going to be
scattered over the hills.
He turns to Jehoshaphat, Didn't I tell you
he's always prophesying evil about me?
I knew it would happen.
One of the most amazing things happened, and
if you read your commentaries and read the
books of theologians, this has been for centuries,
it's been a dilemma for many, many theologians,
what happens next.
Here's a man who appears to want to
walk in the will of God.
Here's a man who appears to be very
anxious to do everything God says.
Here's a man who says, I'm not going
to do anything until I hear from God.
I'm not going to do anything until I
know I'm on good scriptural grounds.
Folks, you can make all the noise you
want to about how you love God.
You can make all the noise you want
about how you love the word of God.
You're going to obey the Lord.
But if you're not careful, and you've already
set your mark, you've decided to do it
your way, you won't humble yourself before the
Lord and test and see if this is
right.
This word came from this prophet.
In fact, as soon as he was done,
this prophet turns, and I believe he's pointing
right to Jehoshaphat, and he says, hearken, listen
to me, all of you.
And that's his finger right at Jehoshaphat.
And it sounds like Jehoshaphat really wants to
do what is right before God.
Oh, I've heard people say that, brother.
I love God.
I want to do His will.
And then the word comes.
Strong.
Break it off.
Deal with it.
That friendship you have is with an evil
person.
That woman you're with is an idolater filled
with this world.
Break it.
Get away from it.
Your friend is destroying you.
Your friend is bringing gossip and filth.
Break it.
The word of the Lord came.
This is doomed.
There's deception.
The prophet said there's a deceiver.
The devil has come with deception.
And, folks, you'll get that message.
The Lord is faithful.
The Holy Ghost is very faithful.
He's being faithful to you tonight.
He's being faithful to all of us by
His word.
And He will come to you and deal
with it.
And what happens next, the theologians can't understand.
The next thing you'll hear, you'll read, so
the king of Israel, Jehoshaphat, the king of
Judah, went up to Ramoth Gilead.
It totally ignores it.
Ignores the pleading, the warning.
Goes up to war.
He chose the word of his friend, Ahab,
over the prophet, the warnings of God.
Totally ignored it.
This is the danger of being led astray
by a plant of the devil of a
friend in your inner circle.
That the time will come you'll lose your
discernment.
You'll be able to sit in any service
and hear the Holy Ghost thundering the word.
Hear the word of God come sharp as
any two-edged sword and still go your
own way and totally ignore everything that you
hear.
That's why people can get a divorce even
though they've had the Holy Spirit warn them
and plead with them and show them all
the consequences of it and still they go
on because that's where you come to finally
if you hold on to that friendship that
is of the world.
Any man who's a friend of the world
is an enemy to God.
Things are getting more and more quiet as
they go along here.
So, Jehoshaphat goes to the war now.
Ahab goes dressed as a common soldier and
he tells Jehoshaphat, You wear your kingly robes.
It's a setup.
I'll tell you what, you think that your
friend is the best thing that ever happened
to you and this friend is not a
God?
I want to tell you what, when the
chips are down, they're going to turn on
you.
They're going to let you take the brunt
just like Ahab did.
And, of course, the Syrians thought that that's
Ahab and they're after Ahab and they surround
Jehoshaphat's chair.
They're ready to chop him up.
And the Bible says that Ahab, or rather
Jehoshaphat, cried out to the Lord, screaming probably,
God help me!
And at the same time, a stray arrow
somehow pierces a seam in Ahab's armor and
pierces right into his being.
Of course, it killed him.
Ahab dies in the process.
I don't know what went through Jehoshaphat's mind
when he races his chariot back toward Jerusalem.
Did Jehoshaphat say, Oh God, thank you.
I see now the danger of walking with
an ungodly companion or a friend.
Lord, never again.
I won't do it anymore.
I will not be a part of the
world system.
Thank you, Lord, for delivery.
I love you, Lord.
It's all over.
But it wasn't all over.
See, God still had a controversy with this
man.
Now, I've never been, I've never called myself
a prophet or thought of myself as a
prophet.
But I'm going to come to you now
as a servant of the Lord because the
Scripture says here, go to chapter 19, if
you will, please.
Just look at 19.
In Jehoshaphat, first verse, Jehoshaphat, the king of
Judah, returned to his house in peace to
Jerusalem.
And Jehu, the son of Hananiah the seer,
went out to meet him.
Look at me, please.
He's coming back in peace.
But God sends a man with a message.
Jehu.
Now, folks, I'm that man tonight for you
in this place and time.
I'm his Jehu now.
I'm not calling myself a prophet.
I'm his Jehu to you tonight, sending out
right now to you a message, the same
message.
Look at it.
Verse 2.
And Jehu, the son of Hananiah the seer,
went out to meet him and said to
King Jehoshaphat, Shouldest thou help the ungodly and
love them that hate the Lord?
Therefore is wrath upon thee from before the
Lord.
You see, this is the third and most
awful consequence.
God says, I don't think you know, Jehoshaphat,
what you did.
I don't think you know the consequences.
You don't know the danger of it.
You think it's an insignificant thing to be
in affinity with somebody that is my enemy.
Ahab was my enemy.
Ahab was an idolater.
And you were his friend.
You encouraged him.
You listened to his idolatry.
You listened to his filth.
And you didn't take a stand.
God said, I have a controversy with you
on this.
And folks, we've taken it too lightly.
We say, my friends are my business.
I'm there.
Maybe I can win them to Jesus.
They cannot be in your inner circle.
The Bible says, come out from among them.
Be ye separate and clean, saith the Lord.
Then I receive you as my son and
my daughter.
Oh, they can be in your outer circle,
but not this inner circle.
Not where there is influence.
Not where you are sharing.
And the inner knowings of the heart.
Impossible.
You say, Pastor, I don't want to consider
my friends ungodly.
I don't want you to think that my
friend, even though they're not where I think
they should be, I don't want you to
say that they're enemies to God.
My friends, the friend I have is supposed
to be a Christian.
But let me ask you this.
Here's what the Bible said.
He that's not with me is against me.
Is your friend really with the Lord?
If he's not, he's against him, the scripture
says.
Is there any rebellion you hear from your
friend?
The Bible said rebellion is the sin of
witchcraft.
That's from the devil.
Does your friend condemn the righteous, speak against
leadership?
He that condemns the righteous is an abomination
to the Lord.
Does your friend speak evil?
Is there something that comes out of rebellion
and dissension out of your friend into your
ears?
The Bible said if you give your mouth
to evil and your tongue frames deceit, and
you speak against a brother and slander him,
if you do not consider this, I'll tear
you to pieces.
Folks, it's not a game.
Your friends matter to God.
My friends matter to God.
Is your friend a joker?
And all he or she does is joke
and tell stories and never talk about Jesus?
You know why that's your friend?
Because that's what you want.
That reflects the need in you.
That reflects something in your own heart or
my heart.
My friends reflect who I am.
I'm so glad Brother Carter's my friend.
Isaiah the prophet said, Surely they're all my
people, and in my pity I redeem them.
You see, you say, well, I can say
that, my friend, the Lord's redeemed them.
They're servants of the Lord.
But they rebelled and vexed his Holy Spirit.
Therefore, I turn to be their enemy, and
I fight against them.
Now, where's God's wrath?
He said the wrath of God comes upon
those who are in affinity with the wicked.
A righteous person who's walking in close relationship
but attracted to some wicked individual with rebellion
in their heart.
Where is the wrath of God?
Well, first of all, the death of his
six sons.
And in the Bible, if you read the
very next chapter, it reads, And it came
to pass after this, the children of Moab,
the children of Ammon, with many others, came
against Jehoshaphat to do battle.
War broke out in his own home and
his own territory, his own home base.
And folks, this is what happens.
This is the awful consequence.
If you side with your friend against the
righteous, if you side with your friend with
iniquity, divorce or anything else, if you're a
partaker, the Bible says you're a partaker in
their sins, first of all.
And not only do you get involved in
somebody else's war, but you end up with
war in your family, your children, husband, wife.
War broke out for Jehoshaphat.
Twenty-five years in peace, and now suddenly
war on everywhere he turned.
On all sides, there was war.
And I've seen this in families.
And people try to figure out why.
Why am I not in the favor of
God anymore?
And I see problem after problem, trouble after
trouble break out.
Now, that's not the only reason.
But often, you can trace it down to
a wife or husband who is in league
with somebody planted by the devil who is
trying to destroy that home that was a
Christian home, destroy Christian brothers and sisters who
had a heart for God.
It's that serious.
For the wrath of God is revealed from
heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men
who hold the truth in unrighteousness.
In other words, they know better.
They know the truth, but they suppress it.
They hold the truth down.
They hold it in unrighteousness.
They suppress the truth.
They won't obey it.
They ignore it.
Thank God, Jehoshaphat feared and set himself to
seek the Lord and proclaimed a fast throughout
all Judah.
The Bible says, Jehoshaphat bowed his head with
his face to the ground, and all Judah
and the inhabitants of Jerusalem fell before the
Lord, worshiping the Lord.
God came and gave them a great victory
against the Moabites and all the enemies.
He subdued them, and the Bible said, Great
peace once again came to the land and
to Jehoshaphat.
Folks, we have a loving Savior.
If you're willing to deal with this tonight,
the Lord in His mercy will deliver you
from the enemy.
He will deliver you.
Take a stand.
I don't care what you have to do.
You say, I don't want to offend my
friend, even though I know my friend is
everything you describe, Pastor.
I can't offend and hurt my friend.
You would rather offend the Heavenly Father?
Shall we offend Him and bring the wrath
of God upon our own heads?
Take the stand.
Say, God, open my eyes.
And say, God, what do you think of
my friends?
Holy Spirit, what do you think of my
best friends?
Examine that before the Holy Spirit.
I want to tell you, folks, this is
a lifelong battle.
You can't ever, ever stop being aware of
this in your life to make sure that
the enemy never succeeds in bringing into your
life someone sent by the devil to destroy
your home and your life.
Jehoshaphat, it's amazing.
Just before he dies, his last days, and
after this, did Jehoshaphat once again join himself
to the Hazziah, king of Israel, who did
very wickedly.
And God sends another prophet.
Because thou hast joined thyself with the Hazziah,
the Lord hath broken thy works.
God says, I'm smashing everything you've built because
you have never learned this lesson.
You keep doing it.
Folks, it's a lifelong watch to make sure
that this doesn't happen.
The Bible says, Make no friendship with an
angry man, and with the furious man thou
shalt not go, lest you learn his ways
and get a snare unto your soul.
You know an angry person that's angry at
the world, gossiping full of rebellion and spitting
out all kinds of dissension, the Bible says,
don't go near that person.
Hang up the phone and say, I'm sorry,
I'm sorry.
I can't go on with this.
Break it.
And if we don't, here's the consequence.
With this I close.
As for those that turn aside by crooked
paths, the Lord will lead them forth with
the workers of iniquity.
The Lord says, I'll lead you.
You want that?
I'll lead you into that.
And folks, it won't be long until you
have a whole circle of the same kind
of friends until finally it's a snare to
your soul.
It brings a war that you can't handle.
I thank God, though, for a place of
repentance in these last days.
Before I close, I did that in 45
minutes.
That wasn't bad.
I didn't overload you.
Simple message, just as clear as it can
be.
What does God think of your friends?
What does God think of your best friend?
You know who he is, she is.
God help you if you're a married woman
or a man, and your best friend is
someone who's going to try to help destroy
your marriage and your home.
God have mercy.
Hallelujah.
Well, I've run out of words.
Will you stand?
Now, there may be some walk out here
tonight saying, oh boy, that message messed up
my life.
Well, I'll tell you something.
Maybe it needed just that.
How do you give an altar call for
this?
I don't know.
Lord, I know that my friends matter to
you.
But I thank you, Lord, that you brought
into my life some friends that are full
of the Holy Ghost, who walk intimately with
Jesus, who give nothing but words of praise
to Christ, who provoke me to righteousness.
Lord, I thank you for that.
Thank you for a wife, Lord, who would
rather tell me the truth than just to
flatter.
I thank you, Lord, for friends that tell
me the truth rather than just flatter.
And I thank you, Lord, you've guarded me
over these years, never allowed the devil to
plant in my inner circle somebody that would
bring dissension to my heart and wound my
spirit and drive me away from you, Jesus.
I thank you for that.
But, Lord, there's some people tonight in this
church that are trapped.
They're already in this snare of affinity with
somebody.
God, break those chains tonight.
Please break them.
I know that you love everyone in this
house.
Lord, you're not trying to beat anybody down.
You're trying to deliver by a clear, clear
word.
You can't walk in agreement with somebody who's
an enemy to God.
And they're an enemy to God if these
things that we've talked about are evidenced in
their lives.
Oh God, what we take into our ears
and into our hearts, help us, Lord, because
they will either poison us or bring us
life.
Lord, I wonder how many people here tonight
have friends that suck their life rather than
give them life, draining their life right out
of them, their spiritual life.
God, break those chains.
And I pray for a miracle tonight that
you put this whole church on guard.
Put us on guard, oh Lord, that we
would not let anybody, we would watch out
for those that are sent by the enemy.
There be no Ahab or Jezebel spirit that
gets into our inner circle, I pray.
Amen.
Beloved, I have to tell you, I know
prophetically tonight that there's some here that God
is really, you're here tonight because He's warning
you.
He's warning you.
You're not there yet, but He's warning you
because the devil's about to try to do
that to you and you have the truth
now, you have the weapons to withstand it.
So ask God every day, Lord, please open
my eyes.
And everyone that you meet, examine that.
Listen to what's coming out of their lips.
And if what you hear is not righteous,
back away.
Get away quick, back away.
If you're here tonight and the Holy Spirit's
dealing with you about anything, about sin, about
friendships, or if you need a miracle, you
say, Brother Dave, I'd like to break a
friendship, but I don't know how without the
power of the Holy Spirit.
I want you to come and we'll pray
with you.
You fellows from Timothy House, you know, been
on drugs and alcohol, you know how important
it is to have friends that boost you
up rather than kick you to hell.
And you know that.
If you've got friends like that, if you
make a commitment to the Lord, I'm not
going to go back to those friends.
I have nothing to do with them anymore.
You've got to break away from any friendship
tonight that is unlike Christ.
Take that stand.
There are going to be a lot of
people coming.
Up in the balcony, go to the exits,
the stairs on either side and come down
any aisle.
While they sing a chorus, obey the Holy
Spirit and come.
You may have to just take that stand
by walking down the aisle.
That may be the step that God wants
you to take.
You break it as you come down this
aisle and say, Lord, I hear you, I'm
going to obey you right now.
Okay.
If you're not saved, you don't know Jesus,
you're backslidden.
Come along with these that are coming.
Friends, look at me please.
All of those that came forward, how many
of you have to admit, Pastor David, I
have to break a friendship.
It's just the way you were describing.
Raise your hand please.
I have to break a friendship.
I'm going to tell you how you do
it now.
You always are civil and kind.
It's never Christ-like to be harsh with
people.
You give a testimony.
You say, I'm sorry, I can't walk with
you because I'm not hearing what I need
to hear.
You have to be honest about it but
loving about it.
Understand?
Others, you say, well, if I pick up
the phone and talk to my friend, if
I see him face to face, it's going
to be hard for me to break it.
As the young lady said, she was really
trying to serve the Lord and she was
living with a young drug addict.
She said, he has a hold on me.
I can't face him.
If I face him, I'll give in.
So write a letter.
Write a note and say, I'm sorry, I
can't walk with you.
I can't be a close friend.
I'll be here if you need me.
You can call me for help, but you
can't walk with them.
You can't be in constant contact with them.
You have to say, I'm available, but call
me only when you have a need.
I'll pray with you.
I'll love you.
I'll stand with you in prayer.
And that's as far as you can go.
But there has to be a break.
Some of you young ladies need to break
from young men that are not righteous.
Understand?
Some of you young men, same thing.
If you're dating a girl that's not a
righteous girl, if she's not like Jesus, I
mean, you're headed pell-mell to destruction.
It'll destroy you.
You say, well, I'm trying to win her
to Jesus.
Wait until she's won and then talk about
it.
Lord, I don't know how to bring people
out of bondage.
It's not my job.
Lord, all I can do is preach what
you put in my heart.
But I feel so strongly about this tonight.
You put this in my heart because there
are people here now that are absolutely ready
to be destroyed if they go another day.
You had to speak tonight.
And I pray that you will send a
Holy Ghost right now.
And they hold to the hearts of these
that have to break an ungodly alliance with
somebody, an attraction, an attraction that's not of
God, a friend that they should not be
walking and talking with, and they should not
be influenced by these that are in their
lives.
Oh God, by your Spirit, break the chains
that bind and set free.
I pray for a miracle now.
I want you to raise both hands to
the Lord right now and pray this prayer
with me.
Jesus, I need a miracle.
I come to you now to be delivered
from a snare of the enemy.
The enemy has tried to ensnare me.
Open my eyes.
Help me to see.
I call on you, Holy Spirit.
Deliver me from every friend who is not
righteous, who would lead me astray, or who's
been planted by the devil in my life.
Open my eyes.
Give me the courage and the power to
break it.
I can't do it myself.
But you have the power to do it
in me and through me.
Now let me pray for you again.
I speak against every lying spirit, every prince
of power and power of darkness that's come
to destroy the godly Lord.
I pray for the tenderhearted ones I spoke
of who care about people.
And the devil's tried to bring somebody in
their life to destroy them.
Somebody pretends to be wounded and somebody's just
trying to draw them out.
Oh God, break that chain, I pray.
Break every ungodly chain.
I give you the glory.
Give you the praise.
I want you to just lift your hands
and thank the Lord for his freedom now.
He's right here to deliver and set you
free.
Hallelujah.
Wonderful Jesus.